tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461323.post8384078906306378188..comments2023-08-26T02:45:40.395-07:00Comments on First Timers: Eating my budgetbrataloidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12821089132580236438noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461323.post-84345365442638672042008-11-27T11:08:00.000-08:002008-11-27T11:08:00.000-08:00Thanks for the comment. I'm no expert at this stuf...Thanks for the comment. I'm no expert at this stuff. I'm learning as I go and each situation is different, but in my humble opinion, unless you want to get back together with your ex it's probably better if you don't have contact with each other for a little while. Maybe try going for 60 days without talking. It sucks but it might be good for both of you to gain some independence. Also, I have to admit that I'm a little confused why you're with this new girlfriend if you don't love her. But only you know your situation and what's really best for you. May you be happy, may you be healthy, may you be at peace, may you live with ease.brataloidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12821089132580236438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461323.post-77771460969443472472008-11-26T21:37:00.000-08:002008-11-26T21:37:00.000-08:00Hey,Not sure how I came across your BLOG but poss...Hey,<BR/><BR/>Not sure how I came across your BLOG but possibly your situation is a bit like my ex (separated from each other afew years ago butboth still love each other--she very depressed me not prone to depression). She has gained weight and seems more depressed when she speaks to me but is kind of dependent on me (emotionally-financially). I want to keep speaking but am I making things worse for her? I have a new GF (don't love her) that my ex blames for breakup (met her when separated but GF likely contributed to us not getting back together).<BR/><BR/>similarities between you and ex<BR/>self help books<BR/>2 dogs <BR/>True blood<BR/>and even the way you write<BR/><BR/>makes your opinion carry more weightAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com